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Your struggles at work, at home, and in love aren't separate problems; they're the same pattern showing up everywhere. Learn to spot it, shift it, and finally break free.
You've got your life together. So why doesn't it feel that way?
You've tried everything. Therapy. Self-help books. Having "the talk" with your partner for the hundredth time. Maybe things get better for a week or two, then you're right back where you started.
Here's why: You're not addressing the pattern. You're just managing symptoms.
That boundary issue with your boss? It's the same pattern showing up with your family.
The way you shut down when you're overwhelmed? That's the same coping mechanism you learned at 12.
The anxiety about "not being enough"? It's running the show in your career, your relationships, and your health.
Most people focus on the symptoms. We help you rewire the pattern.
Introducing Realth: Relational and Emotional Alignment
Realth isn't just another personality test or relationship quiz. It's a pioneering framework that measures how consistently your values, emotions, actions, and connections align across your life.
Think of it as a GPS for your relationships, with yourself, your partner, your work, and your legacy.
The Realth Framework maps 5 Growth Zones:
Self-Awareness - How well you understand your patterns
Emotional Intelligence - How you handle feelings (yours and others')
Relational Intelligence - How you connect, communicate, and create trust
Values Alignment - Whether you're living according to what matters most
Emotional Expression - How you show up authentically in the world
Across 8 Core Life Domains: Giving & Receiving Care • Handling Emotions • Setting Healthy Boundaries • Living My Values • Getting Needs Met • Habits & Patterns • Perspective & Mindset • Giving Back & Contribution
When these align, you experience momentum. Ease. Flow.
When they're misaligned? You're exhausted, frustrated, and wondering why success feels so hard.
Discover Your Primary Growth Zone (Free)
Most assessments tell you everything about yourself. Realth tells you the ONE thing to focus on next.
Take our assessment and discover:
Your current alignment across the 5 Growth Zones
The #1 pattern that's holding you back
Your next step toward a breakthrough
Unlike other assessments that overwhelm you with data, Realth identifies your PRIMARY growth zone, the single area that, when shifted, creates the most momentum in your life.
Meet Your Guide
I'm Debbie Johnson, founder of Realth and a Robbins-Madanes certified Strategic Intervention coach.
For years, I watched brilliant people sabotage their own success, not because they lacked skills or knowledge, but because their unconscious patterns were running the show.
I've been there too. High-achieving on the outside, exhausted and disconnected on the inside. Always feeling isolated from the very connection I craved.
That's when I realized: we don't have separate problems in health, relationships, and career. We have patterns that show up everywhere.
Realth was born from that insight. It's not just a framework; it's a system for identifying the invisible patterns that control your life and rewiring them at their root.
My mission? Help you stop managing symptoms and start creating alignment.
Is This You?
✓ You're successful on paper but emotionally exhausted
✓ You keep attracting the same type of partner (or boss, or friend)
✓ You intellectually know what to do, but can't seem to follow through
✓ Your relationships feel like hard work instead of connection
✓ You're tired of repeating the same patterns and getting the same results
✓ You want a deeper understanding, not just another "3 tips" article
If you nodded along to any of these, you're in the right place.
Three Ways to Work With Realth
OPTION 1: Start Free.
Take the Assessment. Get your primary growth zone and personalized insights in 5 minutes. → Take the Free Assessment
OPTION 2: Go Deeper
Join The Village - A community for people committed to breaking patterns and building alignment. Monthly workshops, coaching circles, and a library of frameworks. → Join The Village
OPTION 3: Stay Connected
Get Weekly Insights Real talk about relationships, patterns, and alignment—delivered to your inbox every week. No fluff, no selling, just value. → Subscribe to Newsletter
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Measure What Matters
Take the Realth Assessment — your personal benchmark for relational and emotional alignment. Like a credit score for your connections, it shows where you stand today.
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See Your Growth Zones
Your results reveal your standing across the five Realth Growth Zones: Self-Awareness, Emotional Literacy, Relational Intelligence, Values Alignment, and Expanded Engagement. Each zone highlights where you are strong and where you need focus.
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Get a Personalized Report
Receive a clear, easy-to-read Realth Report with: Your overall alignment score, zone-by-zone insights, and a snapshot of your primary growth domain.
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Apply the Tools
Use Realth's frameworks — PAUSE, RELATE, SERVE, Va Ben6, The Lover's Odyssey — to translate insights into action. These practical methods help you build skills, shift patterns, and align your life in real time.
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Track Your Progress
Re-take the assessment or mini-checks over time to see how your alignment improves. Small, consistent actions grow into measurable transformation.